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WISE “Bits and Bites” for the New Year!

January 8, 2019 by JaneDrew Leave a Comment

Don’t let compliments go to your head. Don’t let criticism go to your heart.

 “If reality is one way and you think it should be another way, you suffer.” “Reality wins, but only 100% of the time.” – Byron Katie

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine.” – Byron Katie

We can all be judgmental at times, so…

Live and Let live!

We’re here to be of service… you get what you give.

When others call you on being controlling, ask yourself if you think you know better than others or you think, You/They should do what I say, because I know better. Even if you are “right” quite a bit, remember it’s not your business to be in charge of the world. Every one    Live and Let live!

A sense of humor helps everything.

How can I bring in more joy, pleasure or fun today?

There’s a huge difference between unsolicited advice and advice that’s asked for.

Trust that the Universe/God has your best interests.

Hate corrodes the container it’s in!

We all carry old wounds and some of them we’re not aware of. Triggers come from unconscious deep places from within. Take responsibility for what triggers you… don’t blame it on what the other person said. It takes effort to work with your triggers; when you do there is freedom and ease. 

“Be yourself, everyone else is taken.” – Oscar Wilde

In a discussion/argument, stay focused. Don’t hog the time – no soliloquies or monopolizing. The more you talk, the more the other person feels frustrated, angry, and/or left out. With more and more words, it’s easier to blame, shame, criticize, demean or name-call. Be precise and to-the-point and let your partner respond! – Stan Tatkin

Ask, don’t demand. Nobody likes to be demanding to do something and the result isn’t good. Even if the person acquiesces to the demand, there usually resentment held inside.

Maturing is the process of over-coming insecurity.


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Effective Individual Therapy in Newport Beach CA – Aetna Provider

August 1, 2017 by JaneDrew Leave a Comment

Effective Individual Therapy & it’s many benefits

Unfortunately, many people associate individual therapy with mental illness or some type of disorder in which they need to seek help for and don’t realize the many benefits it has towards several of life’s challenges.

Individual Therapy can help you…

1. Develop a new perspectives of life as well as new skills – Dr. Jane Drew can help you develop a positive mindset and learn techniques to free yourself from bad habits, depression, anxiety, and self-criticism, among other self destructive thoughts and emotions. Dr. Jane Drew specializes in getting to know you and your perspectives.

2. Deal with addictive behaviors – Dr. Jane Drew provides quality advice on how to finally defeat substance abuse, alcoholism, eating disorders, gambling, negative relationship issues, and much more.

3. Find ways to relate and deal with emotional suffering – Through individual therapy, Dr. Jane Drew can help you learn to see the silver lining, bringing wisdom and compassion despite the suffering, instead of giving in to depression, frustration and anger.

4. Improve relationships – Through individual counseling, Dr. Jane Drew can develop more life-shaping behaviors which can you improve the quality of your relationships with loved ones, friends, and the community.

5. Regain sense of self empowerment – Counseling with Dr. Jane Drew can help you learn to take responsibility of your life and remember to move forward when encountering challenges rather than feeling helpless and hopeless.

Contact Dr. Jane Drew today to schedule your Individual Therapy Session

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    Dr. Jane Drew is an Aetna partner located in Newport Beach, CA

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    Healing Father wounds – Newport Beach Therapist

    June 23, 2017 by JaneDrew Leave a Comment

    Fathers Influence Our Lives. How did Your Father Influence Yours? Healing Father Wounds

    “My dear little Janie, I’ll never see you again.” These words were spoken by my 37-year-old father to me when I was 14 months old. He was on his way to the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota to get treatment for his heart condition. Sadly, he died a week later. He left my mother with five children, no job, and no insurance. He was uninsurable because he had had rheumatic fever when he was a child which left him with an enlarged heart.

    In my early adulthood when I was in my own psychotherapy, I thought my frustrations and patterns were all about my mother because she was the only parent who was there. After quite awhile, my therapist helped me see that many of my issues had to do with not having a father. With this awakening, many aspects of my life changed for the positive.Where Were You When I Needed You, Dad? Book Cover
    Eventually I wanted to share what I had experienced and learned about how fathers impact children. I wrote a book, “Where Were You When I Needed You, Dad? A Guide for Healing Father Wound” The audience for the book is men and women who father’s were absent, abusive, judgmental, or emotionally distant.

    A father’s influence…

    Do you have difficulties in your relationship with your father? Did your dad model or influence some of the negative patterns that you are playing out in your life? Do you have feelings toward him that are interfering with your happiness? Are you a father who wants to do a better job of fathering? Are you a father who needs to own up to some of the mistakes you made so you can have a better relationship with a child of yours. If so, dealing with these issues in therapy could be a turning point that improves that quality of your life, your work, and your relationships.


    Dr Jane Drew, Psychologist is an experienced and highly qualified Newport Beach, CA Therapist who offers a variety of excellent counseling services. She is particularly involved with issues of fathering and father wounds. In professional workshops, she has trained over a thousand therapists on how to deal with father issues with their clients.


    Fill out the form below to seek help in dealing with healing father wounds.

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      Couples Therapy in Newport Beach

      June 14, 2017 by JaneDrew Leave a Comment

      Don’t wait for it to be too late, schedule your Couples Therapy today!

      Many couples seek out couples therapy as a last resort, when the frustration, discontent, and mistrust is already at its peak. Unfortunately, when the situation is escalated at this point, it is typically more challenging to come to an agreement or be understanding and compassionate of one another’s point of view. Rather than waiting for the boiling point, and seeking help when it will not be as effective, it is better to treat Couples Therapy as a proactive tool rather than a reactive tool very much similar to how we maintain our vehicles before they fully break down and no longer function.couples therapy

      Regardless of what level you and your partner feel you have reached, reach out as soon as possible to get the help you need to have a positive impact on your life, relationship, and overall self-improvement.

      Dr Jane Drew, Psychologist is an experienced and highly qualified Newport Beach, CA Therapist who offers a variety of excellent counseling services for any of your needs.

      Give her a call today – (949) 645-5907 or Fill out the form below:

        Dr. Jane Drew is an Aetna Health Provider.

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        Free Depression Assessment | Aetna Psychologist in Newport Beach

        June 7, 2017 by JaneDrew Leave a Comment

        Depression can affect your thoughts, mood, health and behavior. It’s more than just feeling down or sad.

        It’s natural to feel down sometimes, but if that low energy mood becomes the norm day after day, it can indicate depression. It is very important to understand that depression is not a sign of weakness or a negative personality trait. It is a widespread health problem impacting millions of people. Fortunately, with proper care and support, it is a treatable medical condition.

        Usually, a combination of therapy and medicine is effective. If not treated, however, depression can get worse. Therefore, get proper treatment now with Dr. Jane Drew, an Aetna Health Care Provider located in Newport Beach, California. Help is only one click or call away!

        Do you want to know if you have depression?  Try the depression assessment  to find out now.
        Read more about depression

        QUICK FACTS:

        Major Depressive Disorder
        The leading cause of disability in the U.S. for ages 15 to 44.3
        Affects more than 15 million American adults, or about 6.7 percent of the U.S. population age 18 and older in a given year.
        While major depressive disorder can develop at any age, the median age at onset is 32.5
        More prevalent in women than in men.

        Read More Stats Here>>

        Here are some symptoms of depression (you may have some or all of them):

        • You feel sad, or worthless.
        • Your outlook is negative or even hopeless.
        • You have little or no energy.
        • You’re not interested in doing the things you normally enjoy.
        • You eat or sleep less, or more, than usual.
        • You have trouble remembering things or making decisions.
        • You have unexplained aches, pains or digestive problems.

        Men can experience depression differently from women. Men with depression can be angry or irritable. They often have little to no energy, and have difficulty sleeping.

        2 National Institute of Mental Health. Men and Depression.

        What causes depression? Many factors contribute to depression. Here are a few causes:

        • Genetics (family history)
        • Certain medicines
        • Drug or alcohol abuse
        • Other psychiatric conditions
        • Other medical illnesses
        • Extreme stress or grief

        depression therapyGetting Proper Treatment and Care is as easy as calling (949) 645-5907 or filling out the form below:

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