



| WELCOME! Do you want to make your life more wonderful? Sometimes life just doesn't go the way we planned? We all have circumstances and personal patterns that are challenging -- and these patterns show up most readily in our close relationships. Personal issues often show up as anxiety, depression, lack of direction and purpose, issues of self-esteem, perceiving oneself as a victim, and trouble getting into or staying in a relationship. Couples get into trouble when they engage is the following: criticism, the need to be right, defensiveness, unrestrained venting, controlling your partner, contempt, retaliation and withdrawal. Couples often get caught in an unconscious “dance” where one partner feels superior (a one-up position) and the other feels less-than (a one-down position). The real problem is that no one can love from being either one-up or one-down. Love only flourishes when both partners realize they are of equal value and have equal say in the relationship. The good news is our pain and our needs point to where we can become more conscious and make significant and substantial changes. Life has it’s challenges, that's a given. How we deal with those challenges and the attitude we have about them can improve. My job –as I see it—is to help people open their minds and hearts. Then, they can love themselves and others, find their purpose and fulfillment in life, and live primarily in gratitude and joy. I am committed to loving connection. Empowering people to connect and re-connect is my life’s work. I work with individuals and couples -- helping them experience the joy in living and in relating. Jane Myers Drew, Ph.D. 366 San Miguel Drive Suite 309 Newport Beach, CA 92660 Day Evening Appointments Phone: (949) 645-5907 Email janedrew@roadrunner.com. License: PSY 10077 |

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